Her
mother had disappeared after her birth and Tabitha had been living
with her father since that time. Her father began using drugs and
she was removed from his home due to neglect. She was dressed inappropriately
for the weather. She had on faded black leggings that were full of
holes and a filthy white T- shirt. She appeared to have not had a
bath in over a week and her hair had not been combed in at least that
much time. Most concerning was her shy and introverted demeanor. She
was not interested in anything to eat and she declined offers of a
stuffed animal or toy. It was not clear if she was even verbal.
About
forty-five minutes later an adorable little girl was running up and
down the hall laughing, giggling and saying hello to everyone who
walked by. She had on a Winnie the Pooh denim jumper, frilly socks
and pink tennis shoes and her hair was combed neatly with matching
hair bows. She walked into the BEAR room and boldly pointed to the
snacks she wanted and the stuffed teddy bear that was her favorite.
None of us could believe this was the same child we had seen less
than an hour ago. The physical transformation was a team effort. The
volunteers in the BEAR room made sure that she had all the emergency
items that she needed, the caseworker cleaned her and changed her
into her new clothes in the ladies room at the CPS office and Michelle
Searles spent about twenty minutes combing and fixing her hair. There
was no doubt that the few items Tabatha was given and the time spent
with her restored her confidence and gave her dignity.
The
mission of BEAR is to provide hope and help to CPS kids and the caseworkers
who protect them. Tabatha was given hope and help. Her caseworker,
who had been with the agency only a few months, expressed to us how
much BEAR helped her too.